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<\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nWhat are the four absolutes?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The \u201cFour Absolutes\u201d of Alcoholics Anonymous were considered \u201cyardsticks\u201d in the earliest days of the recovery program \u2014standards for determining appropriate behavior as measured through God\u2019s eyes. The Four Absolutes are Honesty, Purity, Unselfishness, and Love. These are guides to keep you in tune with God\u2019s will in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Absolutes are the essence of Jesus\u2019 teachings about the will of God, ideals for our life, moral standards by which our thoughts and actions may be tested for harmony with God\u2019s will, and the keys to the spiritual life God wishes us to lead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Although some believed these absolutes are impossible to obtain, they were guidelines to help determine whether a course of action was directed by God. The Four absolutes are a great tool for anyone; for those in recovery, they are an essential way to keep on the path and help us take a look at our motives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Four Absolutes were initially written in 1904 by Christian author Robert Speer, and later would become a part of the teachings of The Oxford Group<\/p>\n\n\n\n The principles behind The Four Absolutes come from the teaching of Jesus in the bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Oxford Group was a movement started in 1921 by Frank Buchman, a minister from Allentown, PA; was founded as a return to early century Christianity originally in 1908.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Buchman believed that the personal problems of fear and selfishness were the root of all societal problems. Further, Buchman believed that the solution to living with fear and selfishness was to surrender one\u2019s life over to God\u2018s Plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some of the fundamental spiritual practices of The Oxford Group were, share our sins and temptations with another Christian, surrender our life past, present and future, into the God\u2019s keeping and direction, Have restitution to all whole we have wronged directly and indirectly and to listen to God\u2019s guidance and carry it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Oxford Group used the Four Absolutes in three specific ways: Most of the Alcoholics Anonymous Program we know today was based off teachings of The Oxford Group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Honesty refers to a facet of moral character and connotes positive and virtuous attributes such as integrity, truthfulness, straightforwardness (both verbally and through our actions), along with the absence of lying, cheating, theft, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When in active addiction this may seem like a foreign concept to us; now in recovery we are told that complete honesty is a must! It\u2019s a big change for most of us to take in all at once. The real virtue of honesty lies in the persistent dedication of striving for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We need to leave our rationalizations by the wayside and stop the self-deceiving that is in our nature and ask our self \u201cis it true or false?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n The unrelenting pursuit of truth will set us free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Purity is defined as the condition or quality of being pure; freedom from anything that debases, contaminates, or pollutes. Purity is a flawless quality. The question asked \u201cis it right or wrong?\u201d is not a hard concept for us to grasp. Often, even in the grips of our addiction, we were aware of the difference between right and wrong. We are often faced with decisions that are tough for us. We often times know what the right thing is to do but we struggle to do it. By practicing this absolute we are better able to make choices and decisions based on the right thinking that will help us line up our lives with Gods will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Purity as in Honesty the virtue lies in striving for it, we will also be in constant pursuit. This is a great way to check your motives and find out if we have hidden agendas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unselfishness is defined as the quality of not putting yourself first, but being willing to give your time, money, or effort etc. Coming into recovery this is often a shift in paradigm for us. We have spent most of our lives thinking of ourselves first, even if we were unaware that we were doing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What we gain in sobriety is directly proportionate to what we give away. Once we have realized this and devote time to helping others, we realize that this is the cornerstone of the recovery program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When analyzing what we are about to do, say, or decide we must first take a look at how this will affect others around us. We have to find out what controls our actions \u2013self-interest or God-interest? This will help us find out if we are self-directed or God-directed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Love is beauty, it is also an action word. When we are in active addiction, we are in the depths of fear, physical agony, mental torture, and spiritual starvation. We need a complete change. We find that in love, in giving love we receive it. Unless we give love, our progress will be lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If something is truly beautiful then it is love. Love is not a feeling it is a decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why is this important for recovery?<\/p>\n\n\n\n When working a program of recovery, we know that taking inventory is vital for our sobriety. Here are some of the questions that are asked in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous that are in line with The Four Absolutes<\/p>\n\n\n\n Read more<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n https:\/\/indianriveraa.org\/PDF\/THE%20FOUR%20ABSOLUTES.pdf<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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What is The Oxford Group?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The Four Absolutes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1 \u2013 As a way to take inventory of our past to see where and how we fell short, so that we could learn what areas of our life needed to be worked on.
2 \u2013 During meditation or while being inspired or guided by our Inner Voice, as a way to differentiate between \u201cGod\u201d thoughts and human thoughts.
3 \u2013 As a standard of living God\u2019s Will, moment by moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\nHonesty- Is it True or Is It False?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Purity \u2013 Is it Right or Is It Wrong?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Unselfishness- How will this affect another fellow?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Love- Is It Ugly or Is It Beautiful?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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