{"id":1544,"date":"2015-04-06T07:47:36","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T12:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/?p=1544"},"modified":"2015-04-06T08:14:10","modified_gmt":"2015-04-06T13:14:10","slug":"its-not-a-competition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/its-not-a-competition\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not a competition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Far too often, I find my self competing with my fellow brothers and sisters in the program. \u00a0This is partly ingrained in me because ever since I was a young child I was exposed to very highly competitive sports and competition.<\/p>\n<p>However in my 20 years of experience I have slowly learned that it is not a race. \u00a0We are all equal. There is no prize for having the most sobriety in the room.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>* Am I in my group a healing, mending, integrating person, or am I divisive? What about gossip and taking other members\u2019 inventories?<\/p>\n<p>* Am I a peacemaker? Or do I, with pious preludes such as \u201cjust for the sake of discussion,\u201d plunge into argument?<\/p>\n<p>* Am I gentle with those who rub me the wrong way, or am I abrasive?<\/p>\n<p>* Do I make competitive AA remarks, such as comparing one group with another or contrasting AA in one place with AA in another?<\/p>\n<p><a href=http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/images\/aa_traditions_checklist.pdf>Read more <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Far too often, I find my self competing with my fellow brothers and sisters in the program. \u00a0This is partly ingrained in me because ever since I was a young child I was exposed to very highly competitive sports and competition. However in my 20 years of experience I have slowly learned that it is &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/its-not-a-competition\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">It&#8217;s not a competition<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1544"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1544"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1548,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1544\/revisions\/1548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/saphonemeeting.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}